What I am about to tell you is what I’ve heard often from Father. This is not in the Divine Principle.
The fact that Cain killed Abel is important in Adam’s family. Adam’s family failed because of this.
Father always thinks deeply about the way Cain could have refrained from killing Abel, and united with him to fulfill God’s Will, and Father practices the way himself. Father’s close family members or direct children are Abel and we, who are not his direct children, are Cain. However, Father does not have time to be with his children, but he always spends a lot of time with members or leaders who are Cain.
When I was in East Garden, I could see that Father ate all three meals a day with us and had meetings with us all day long. His children were left behind. Father ate nicely prepared meals with side dishes with us in the dining room, but the children had to go past a small kitchen and quickly eat whatever there was and go to school. I always felt so sorry for them.
One day, Hyo Jin Nim was walking by the place where Father and I were having a meeting. When Father saw him, he said “Hyo Jin, I'm so sorry. There was something I wanted to tell you, but I couldn’t. I'm so sorry.” I thought in my heart, “Does he not have enough time to tell him a sentence when they live together under one roof?”
I soon realized that he did not have even a little time to do that. Father wakes up before any of his children wake up and goes to bed after all of his children go to bed. There were many days when Father could not even see his children’s faces.
Before he goes to bed, he sometimes opens the door to his children’s room. However, it’s too dark, and he can’t caress his children, so he just says, “Good night.” and gives a short prayer. Father spends many of his days like that.
We see that Father loves Cain first in his life. The heart of Cain who receives Father’s love will be moved, and Cain, whose heart has been moved, will come to serve Abel. People in the past were unable to do this. Father always talks about the need for this.
“My parents and siblings could have followed me only if I had told the Principle to them, but I couldn’t utter a word to them about it.”
Why couldn’t he say anything about it? Father said that his mouth would freeze whenever he tried to talk about the Principle. God stopped him from speaking.
Father said “The Cain world must be restored first before we can restore the Abel world. This is the order of restoration. I tell you to restore your tribes because we have such a law of Cain and Abel. I am telling you to relieve the sorrowful heart of the Teacher who wasn’t able to restore his tribe.”
What we must learn from Adam’s family is how we will be kind to the Cain side people and treat them in a way that doesn’t make them complain.
If Abel sympathized with his brother Cain when he saw that God refused to take Cain’s offering, Cain would not have killed Abel. If God’s providence is to be completed, the Abel side of a person must harbor the nature that can bring the Cain side of people into natural subjugation.
That is what we must learn, however, Father said “This is the other way around in.
Japan.” Since the old times, Japan had the spirit of Bushido, and superiors ordered their subordinates to commit suicide when they were disobedient. So the pastors act similarly and treat their members in a very authoritarian manner, saying “I am your Abel. Obey me!”
When I went to Japan, I could see that this was hurting the hearts of Japanese members. Many Japanese members were struggling because of the Cain-Abel relationship. Father talks a lot about this relationship in hopes of allowing the Japanese members to properly realize this and learn that Abel people must be able to bring Cain people into natural subjugation.
People around Adam’s family
This is something I found out by asking Father directly.
One member asked me “Who were these people that supposedly existed at the time when Cain killed Abel? Were they the early humans (apes)?”
The early humans (apes) are beings that lie between humans and monkeys.
I was serving Father one day in Boston while he was fishing for tuna. I was suddenly reminded of the question about Adam’s family, so I asked “Father! Who were the people who lived at the time when Cain killed Abel? Are they apes?” At this time, Father answered that God did not create apes.
Adam lived to become 930 years old. Father said that Adam gave birth to many children before he gave birth to Adam and Eve. Cain and Abel were selected to be providential people among those children and their names were recorded in the Bible.
Unless you were a providential figure, your name was not even recorded in the Bible. The people who were recorded to have existed at the time of Cain and Abel were their close relatives.
Cain was afraid that they would kill him because he killed Abel, and begged God, ‘ every one that finder me shall slay me.’ Then God left a mark on Cain. (Genesis 4:14~15)
Tree of providence
Father once drew a diagram of a large tree of providence on a blackboard. Father wanted to explain to us where we as individuals belong on this tree of providence. The reason for the drawing was that Father wanted us to find our position as a member or as a leader.
This part is the root. Father said, “I am Alpha and Omega, beginning and end, now and later.” Furthermore, Father said “I will harvest the fruit as I was the one who began it. I am the root, the stem, and the fruit.” The fruits are his results and outcome.
Then where are we on this tree? We are one of the smaller branches. The responsibility of these branches is to keep hanging onto this tree of providence.
How will they hang on?
Father says that the only method is through obedience. We must harbor no self-awareness. There is a common mistake made by pastors. When Father gives a direction, they act stubbornly to make results. Father is saying that he will sow the seeds and reap the fruits so just do as he tells them to do.
When fruits are being reaped, it is important to do as we are told. Father says that it is alright even if you cannot show any results. If Father tells you to do something else while you are already working on something after upholding Father’s direction, then we must have no second thoughts about stopping whatever we were doing and beginning the new work that Father told us to do.
Even though there are still only a few providential results, we must follow the command. This is a matter of condition. It is important to set the standard of how much we are one in Shimjeong that of True Parents. We are creating conditions which Satan cannot accuse and this is the most important thing we must do. God can exert his infinite power if we create conditions that cannot be accused by Satan.
We must be obedient to Father’s commands and must not criticize them even a little. Do not criticize True Parents, do not complain, and do not worry. These three things are what Satan likes the most and these are the conditions that allow Satan to accuse. The reason we say do not criticize the works of Father, do not complain, and do not worry is because Father is moving the spirit world. We must therefore be unconditionally obedient.
Many married couples are about to receive the blessing who complain and try not to go through the indemnity stick ceremony. They say “Why must we beat our husbands or wives so cruelly with an indemnity stick?” They complain without even knowing the true meaning of the indemnity stick.
They say they have already worked so hard to bring their husbands, who don’t want to receive the blessing anyway, to the blessing, and why must they now beat them with an indemnity stick? They criticize: “Why do we do such barbaric exercise?” Father said, “People say the most ignorant things when they do not even know how Satan can be taken out of their bodies.” Then he continued, “They must do it because I am the only one who knows that.”
Then why do we use the Holy Salt, and what is the law of Holy Separation? Holy Salt was first made during the True Parents’ Holy Marriage. We now use it after it is multiplied by seven.
Using the Holy Salt means that we are continuing the shimjeong of the Father.
Father deals with everything in the matter of Shimjeong. It is because Adam and Eve fell at the stage of imperfection, in other words, the stage of imperfection of shimjeong. Father has attained complete oneness with God concerning shimjeong. Therefore, if we follow Father absolutely and become one in Shimjeong the with him, Satan will be taken away from us when we naturally become one in shimjeong with God.
In conclusion, we must be well aware that everything the Father does is closely
connected to the spirit world. As Father is the one who moves the spirit world, it may seem like his commands are illogical and unreasonable in this world, but those who serve True Parents must make the right judgment.
Some people left the church among my 36-couple group. Many of them were the type of people who consider themselves smart. They use their judgment and say ‘ Father should not do this. ’ They criticize a few things and in the end conclude that they cannot follow Father’s providence.
That is why it is written in the Bible,‘ to obey is better than sacrifice.’ (1 Samuel 15:22)
Please remember this and do not make any mistakes in your journey of following the path of Will.
I once received a very interesting revelation in my dream.
After we were expelled from Ehwa Women’s University, we became an unwelcome bunch. Professor Young Un Kim or Mrs. Won Bok Choi were at least kicked out from the university still holding the titles as professors so they could find other jobs and were treated with respect. However, people called me ‘ Surengi’ because my physical father was from North Korea. I didn't know what it meant at first, but I looked around to realize that it meant ‘ a silkworm fed with mulberry that cannot produce any silk.’ so people often called us “Oh, those Surengis”. We were truly an unwelcome bunch at the time. Our pride was hurt, and we also worried about our future. We started worrying.
When my worries became great, Father appeared in my dream one night. The fourteen students, including myself, who were expelled from the school were sitting in a circle around Father on a particular mountain. Father, realizing of such worries, spoke to me, “I do not want money or knowledge from you. You have the innocence and love that is the purest in the world. You do not know how to criticize Father’s works. You do not even have a shadow of criticism toward the Teacher. You believe all that I do, you accept everything, and you have the heart of absolute obedience. Please know that that heart of obedience is more precious than anything in the world.
After that dream, I started to think ‘ I was right. It doesn’t matter if we are not professors or ministers as long as we have the heart of absolute obedience towards Father.’
Then Father gave the name of ‘ Myeong Won Hoe (Association of Illuminating Circle)’ to the members expelled from the school. It meant ‘ You must expand in a circle to illuminate this world brightly with your love.’
The members of Myeong Won Hoe become wrinkled grandmothers now but Father says we always look young in his eyes. If I wear something even just a bit bright, Father says, “You still have the looks from when you were a college student!” It’s been already 50 years since the incident, but Father still remembers it as such.
I want to tell you Father’s Words that he gave to the members of Myeong Won Hoe.
“The root of your faith does not shake, and your life therefore is not wasted away. That is why you always look young.”
Is it very poetic? Father’s talking about the spiritual perspective. I was 23 when I first saw Father and Father was 36. Father was single at the time. I treated him like my older brother, like my father. Such days now remain inside me as beautiful memories.
In such a way, Father sees things with his spiritual eyes. Even though I am an old and wrinkled grandmother, Father still tells us “You guys always look young.” It is said that when we shed our physical bodies and go to the spirit world, our appearance will be from the time we were the prettiest. I entered the church when I was 23. Therefore, my age in the spirit world will always be 23. I become happy whenever I think about how I will return to the spirit world and look 23 again.
Obey and believe unconditionally
There are two things we must know about Noah’s family.
One of them is the question of why Noah had to be lying naked.
Was Noah following a plan made by someone else when he lay down naked? This
was of course, God’s work. So I’d like to ask you. Did Noah drink the wine according to his will or did someone make him? God made him drink the wine. Such a thing happened because there was something that needed to be restored within Noah’s family.
There is something more difficult to understand in Abraham’s family. Abraham’s family, at the time, was in the position of nobility since they were a family selected by God. However, do you think Abraham, who was selected as the ancestor of the chosen
people, sent his wife to the pharaoh without any reason? No. We can find the reason for this also in the Principle.
In other words, the central figures who are selected in the course of the providence acted according to the commands of God, and they played the role unconsciously. As I explained before, such things had to happen because God cannot hate Satan and God also wants to see his former servant return to his original position. Such secrets are only shared between God and Satan.
However, Father came to this Earth as the Messiah and unveiled this secret. We must understand that Father was able to unravel the secret of Restoration Providence because he was able to unveil the secret of the Fall,
Christians do not know the heart of God who was behind the Old Testament, the collection of the course of the Jewish people, and simply believe that it is a collection of model stories of faith made by Jewish people. For example, Christians teach that there are three kinds of faith: Noah’s unchanging faith of building the ark, Abraham’s faith of absolute obedience of leaving his hometown, and Jacob’s prudent faith.
As we can see, the current theology does not even talk about the providence of restoration. The principle of restoration, on the other hand, unravels the step-by-step fall of Adam and Eve and the illicit sexual relationship that was entangled in the process. The principle of restoration truly explains to us in detail all the secrets of human history.
Father says the following occasionally.
“After completing the Will, I may get drunk and lie on a street naked or dance around just as Noah did. Would you still follow me?”
Imagine. What would Father look like in such a state? The person of such high status as True Parents and the King of All Kings to one day just take off all of his clothes and dance naked, how would that look? Would you still be able to follow Father?
Furthermore, what if Father suddenly becomes senile without any chance of recovery, unable to recognize anyone, saying ‘ Who are you? The national president?” Would you still be able to follow Father without changing?
As the number of people following Father increases, there will be good people, bad people, and people with little or no faith. Father will test the people to see who’s who.
Noah was naked in his room, but Father may test the people by going out to the street and getting naked. Father asked us if we would still follow Father. I answered lightly “Yes!” but come to think of it now, I wonder if I would be able to follow Father.
I hear that there are people these days who criticize Father from their standpoint. However, the people who are far away from Father do not commit the crime of shimjeong. One can’t sin without opportunity. We, who are close to Father, are the problem. Some people commit the crime of unfaithfulness because they talk back to Father at every chance. We must clearly understand what this crime of shimjeong is.
We didn’t have anywhere to go after we were expelled from Ehwa Women’s University. Even though we were in such a difficult situation, Father did not care about it at all.
Our situations were not in Father’s awareness. Even in such circumstances, Father said that the people of the world must come to him to listen to the Principle and then must go out to the world.
I felt that Father had his head up in the clouds, so I refuted Father whenever he said such things. “I believe your Words as the Words of the Lord, but I think that will take some time. Such things will only be realized after we all go to the spirit world.” Father said “No. It will happen while you are still alive.” We all shook our heads in disbelief.
When I was working in America, there were 11 pastors, consisting of 36-couple families to younger family members. Father remembered all the things we said when we were little, and he scolded us whenever we got together. “You! The things I said in the past are now becoming a reality, but who among you believes what I said? Not one of you here believes in me.” I could not raise my head because of shame.
However, it was impossible to believe what Father was saying at that time. Circumstances were dire, persecution was strong, and we were weak.
Father saw things with his spiritual eyes and often said something completely out of the blue. “When I go to America, I should wear this mask worn by criminals. Women’s lipstick will smear off my cheeks when they kiss. I should make a plastic mask of some sort and wear it so that women there can’t touch my cheeks.” I think Father said it because Western women are more active in physical contact.
When I heard such Words, I thought ‘ Will such days truly come?’ Father used to say things out of the blue like this very often, so I shook my head in disbelief many times. When we were in America, Father remembered all this and said “If you are left in.
Korea, you will all sin disbelief and go to hell when you go to the spirit world.”
Father also said, “You did not fully believe me during the early times, but you still stuck with me and remained in the church. I can’t send you to hell, so I’ve brought you here to America to teach these young American members what kind of person I am. Then, I want you to confess truthfully about how you were unable to believe in the Father fully back in the day, repent, and through it, you will bring salvation to the American members, and you will be forgiven as well. This is why I have brought you to America.”
To disobey Father even in our hearts is the same as when Noah’s second son Ham became ashamed of his father’s naked body, covered it with her, at and ran away.
Noah did something unbelievable to others when he built the ark on the mountains of Ararat for 120 years. Noah was able to save his family at least by doing such an unbelievable thing.
When we learn the entire principle of restoration required by God, we see that the principle of restoration is the principle of shimjeong. Father saved us by doing something we could not believe. Therefore, we must be optimistic about whatever Father does and just believe unconditionally.
We must obey and simply believe. Only then can we escape the accusations of Satan. Father knows this, and he makes us do these things so that Satan cannot accuse us.
Proclamations are important in the course of restoration
Father sometimes said that, had he known about the Principle, Noah should have proclaimed it in front of his family members.
Noah was supposed to gather his family members in one place after the 40-day flood judgment was over and proclaim: “Listen carefully. I hereby proclaim that I have emerged victoriously from the 40-day flood judgment after the arduous works of 120 years. As I make this proclamation, any of your mistakes from now on shall have no relation with my victory.”
If he made such a proclamation, any crime committed by a member of his family would not have invaded the realm of the victory, and the indemnity could have been made much lighter. However, Noah did not make such a proclamation and even the 40-day flood judgment was invaded by Satan.
When searching for the Principle, Father deeply researched the works of the central figures of the past, thinking ‘ If he had done this in this position, he could have continued without failing.’ Father was able to overcome the mistakes made by Adam’s family, Noah’s family, and Abraham’s family because he knew about these things.
That is why Father makes plenty of proclamations. Father makes a proclamation whenever he completes a stage in the providence. Our church does plenty of rallies, and Father explains that he does these things to make us work and connect us externally to the victorious conditions made by Father so that we may not be spiritually accused by Satan.
Here is a handkerchief. What happens if we fold this into half and make a knot? We will get two parts. Then the upper part will be separated from the lower part.
They become unrelated. Therefore, if the lower part does something wrong, it cannot advance upward to the other part because of this knot. Making a proclamation is making a knot such as this.
Father reports to God “I have come this far victoriously!” through the proclamations he makes in assemblies, and they are also proclamations to Satan, “You cannot invade anymore since I have made this many victories.” In other words, Father is making a knot in front of God, Satan, the entire spirit world, and the Physical World to solidify his victory. Noah, however, did not know about this.
Father said that he is not proclaiming to the participants of assemblies only. Furthermore, Father’s assemblies do not end in just one place. These assemblies are Father’s making knots in the providence. Therefore, if we are to invite ten people, we must let hundreds and thousands of people know.
Not everyone who hears about the news of our assemblies may not come to our event but they at least will be attentive. They are at least aware that ‘ Who’s doing what and when.’ We aim for their attention. If we have their attention, it can work as a condition for the spirit world to help us. If the people in the Physical World become curious and attentive, their ancestors will already line up to cooperate.
There is this question I am always asked by the members when I visit America. “Mrs. Eu, we keep paying 100 dollars, 200 dollars, and 500 dollars every time Father holds an assembly. However, nothing is left when 500 or 1,000 people come, listen to the speeches, eat whatever food there is, clap a few times, and leave. Wouldn’t the money better be used if we use it to go on one-on-one witnessing?”
Then I explain about Noah in such instances. Father’s proclamations in the assemblies have the purpose of planting the roots of Father’s great victory, and Father is advancing
the providence along with the spirit world. I explain to them that Father’s assemblies are not to be taken from a practical standpoint only. Then they say “Oh, is that right?”
Our church was bombarded by the media from its early days. Mr. Eu became angry.
One day and said to Father in tears, “Father! Give me just one chance to prove to them that the Unification Church is not a promiscuous group.” However, Father became angry and replied, “Stop trying to do frivolous things.”
Father then added “Even Satan’s works cannot happen without the permission from heaven. We are not losing anything because of this. They are promoting us for free, what’s your worry? People will have more interest in our church if bad rumors against our church are spread. When people have more interest in our church, the spirit world will be able to cooperate.”
Father said that when people hear bad rumors about our church, they always hear what kind of person Father is. Then more people will have an interest in our church, and then the good ancestor spirits in the spirit world will work so that their descendants will become curious about our church and come to us to find out if the rumors are true. There were many cases where such people became moved by Father and the Principle and joined our church. Therefore, people’s misunderstanding and opposition are not always something to be avoided.
There was a rich man in the providence of Hokkaido, Japan. He often saw Father’s face and opposition propaganda on TV, so he came to one of our churches and said “I don’t think Rev. Moon is that bad of a person. Rather, I think he is special. So please explain to me about The Unification Church.” Then he accepted the explanations that were given to him. After hearing all the explanations from our members, he said “You guys seem to be doing good things. Is there anything I can help you with?”
One member told him that it takes a lot of money to do God’s work. Then that man donated not a small sum of money that he inherited from his parents. As such, the good ancestor spirits in the spirit world keep pushing their descendants to go to the Unification Church.
On the other hand, if we buy an ad in the newspaper and say “Everything that has been posted in the newspapers is different from the truth,” then Christians will gather force and retaliate two or threefold. Father said that at that point, the fight would snowball.
We lack financial resources and numbers. We have a busy schedule ahead of us and if we keep trying to fight, then we will tire ourselves out. As such, Father said that we should keep on walking our path if we have the money to fight.
Father explained that the opposition from Christian churches is like children complaining to adults because they don’t understand the things the adults do.
Therefore, we must wait until they grow up and become adults themselves, and we must continue to walk our way.
People of the world are the descendants of fallen humanity, so they are not interested in who did which good deeds. Such news of good deeds tends to disappear after they travel around to three different people. On the other hand, news like ‘ who killed who and who fornicated with whom’ draws attention from many people. Talk of good deeds by others live short but talk of bad deeds by others spreads like wildfire.
People’s fallen natures drive others to become more interested in bad things and want to know more. Therefore, if we are to draw the attention of such fallen people, we must let people say bad things about us. It is because we must draw their attention first to witness.
We should know that Satan does not say good things. Satan gladly says bad things, thinking that he is fulfilling his will, but God takes hits and reclaims many folds later. It is not always a bad thing when people try to paint our church as an evil group.
Then why do newspapers and people persecute Father in this way? This is a serious problem. It is because we, the children of God’s side, are afraid to openly testify about Father, fearing persecution.
The prayer method True Father taught us Father taught me greatly how to pray.
Father taught us to pray to God in a way that makes God say ‘ Yes, I will realize your prayer even if that is the only thing that I will do.’ He asked us to pray so that we can grasp God’s interest.
I could not bear a child even the first three years since the blessing. Father asked me to come one day, and he said “I gave birth to my children, but what are you going to do with no children? Do you pray to God to give you a child?”
When I answered “No. It’s a personal matter, so I didn’t feel that I could pray to God for such a thing,” Father said, “No, you must pray to God!”
Then Father told me that when I pray, I should pray in a way that makes God say “This prayer is righteous. I should make it happen.” Father told me to “Pray in a way that grasps God’s interest.” So I asked him, “How do I pray in a way that grasps God’s interest?” Father said “When you pray to God, don’t just pray ‘ Please give me a child.’ Rather, you should say ‘ How do we, the blessed families, make God’s foundation on Earth? Is it not by creating a Four Position Foundation?
Please allow our family to form that foundation.’ You should pray like that.” Father said we should say nothing apart from that.
After hearing Father’s instructions, I began to pray for public matters first, and then prayed ‘ Heavenly Father! Please allow us, a family who has received the blessing of Heavenly Father, to form a Four Position Foundation.” I prayed very sincerely. Then three months before I became pregnant, many spiritually bright people received revelations from heaven to pray for me.
Furthermore, whenever there was a gathering of members, Father said “Gil Ja come out. Mr. Eu’s wife, come out.” So I would go out the front. Then Father says to me, in front of the entire audience, “You haven’t given birth to a child yet while others gave birth to children just fine. Tell us about how miserable you feel.” I felt so horrible when Father told me that. To be honest, I cried then. So I told the members there “Folks, please!
Pray for me so I can give birth.
When I went inside of Father’s room one day, Father told me “Gil Ja! You developed a lot of nerve these days.” He teased me. So I inquired “Why?” Father teased more by answering “I hear you are begging others to pray for you so you can have a child.”
So I sincerely requested to Father, “Father! You can scold me as much as you want when we are alone, but please don’t embarrass me in front of many people.” Then, the color of Father’s face changed as he said “Hey! That’s because you don’t know! If you cry in front of that many people, the spirit world will take pity on you.”
Father said that the spirit world will become more sympathetic to you if the people here on Earth become sympathetic towards you. Father said that I would become pregnant faster because the spirit world would help me even greater. Father told me “You can become pregnant faster if I scold you.” After such events, I did become pregnant as Father had told me and I ultimately gave birth to three sons.
I learned this method from Father and used it on other people who couldn’t give birth. When people hate me for my method, I tell them about my experience of giving birth to children after Father’s scolding.
There is someone who had an unforgettable episode because of child-bearing. It’s the family of the president of Segye Ilbo, Mr. Hwang Hwan Che. He had seven children, all of them were daughters. Mrs. Hwang was the vice president of The Women’s Federation for World Peace. After giving birth to three daughters, she worried she would give birth to another daughter when she became pregnant again. She was thinking about this while she was in the hospital to give birth to her new child. We normally panic when we are about to give birth to a child but that’s what she was thinking.
I used Father’s method here as well. I called Mrs. Hwang in the hospital and told her “Young Sook! You must have done something terrible. You must repent. You will give birth to a son only if you repent. You will never get a son otherwise.” I pushed her like that. She then became frightened of me and tried to run away from me whenever she had a chance.
I once got a hold of her at Kimpo airport again after sending off some members. When I told her the same thing, she suddenly began to cry out loud. We were together with Kang Jung Won, who was one of my friends expelled from Ehwa University. Kang told me “Why did you have to make your friend cry.” and the two made an alliance and scolded me back. I only applied the method I learned from Father. However, seeing them both upset about it made me feel bad as well.
But what else is there to do? I boldly put into practice the method I learned through my personal experience. Then guess what? She became pregnant the same month and gave birth to a son. That is Hwang Jin Su. He has already grown up and received the blessing.
When Mr. Hwang’s wife gave birth to a son, I told her about what had happened at Kimpo airport. I said “I cried many times in the past because Father scolded me for not being able to give birth. I felt that you had to cry if you were to give birth to a son, so that’s why I made you cry.” Mrs. Hwang was able to accept my scolding only then. I’m so happy these days whenever I see Jin Su. He is the son his mother was able to have after shedding tears and that makes him more precious and lovely.
When I was active in America, there was a member by the name of Ikeno who was working with me. He had only three daughters and no son. So I scolded him openly in public for not being able to give birth to a son. Then later, his wife gave birth to a son. Mr. Ikeno later told me “After we received the scolding from you, we tried very hard to have a son.” Then they asked me to name their newborn child.
Whenever I see someone who can’t give birth or give birth to a son, I scold similarly in front of people. If you see someone around you who is in a similar situation, scold them openly in public, even to the point of making them cry. They will be able to give birth once they shed tears. We do it not because we hate them, but because that is the most effective method in helping them to become pregnant.
This is a very precious method that I received from Father directly.
Mrs. Gil Ja Sa Eu
